Did I ever tell you that Jason is driving around in our bathroom renovation? He has been for the past few months.
Let me go into the background for those who are new to this blog.
Jason and I are
completely incompatible when it comes to the topic of money.
I'm frugal and he's not. It was the way we were raised. I have depression-era mentality parents, while Jason has baby-boomer parents. Our two worlds could not be more entirely different when we compare our financial backgrounds.
I
need to save for that rainy day which may never come. However, Jason is okay with living from pay cheque to pay cheque (not that he's paid by cheque, but you get my drift).
Renovating the Sow's Ear has been a great challenge in terms of working out our priorities. It must be a dilemma that many renovating couples experience.
Let me illustrate our story with some pivotal images:
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Our Jason's new car |
The above image is the "Oh my God, I am 40 years old and I need a European sports car" purchase. Jason did end up buying the car
after much discussion and consultation with his lovely wife. Aren't I nice?
Anyway, I call it the Bathroom Renovation. BR for short. The new car taunts me and I swear it gurgles flushing toilet noises every time I near it.
This is the second new car that Jason has purchased in as many years. Our very first car was
stolen at Bunnings (the hardware shop for overseas readers) when we first moved to the Sow's Ear. It is poetic cruelty - a renovator's car stolen at the hardware store.
Jason used the renovation money set aside for the bathroom and other projects to buy a brand new runabout for work. He had it for 15 months before trading it in to buy the new sports car. We literally have been donating money to the car yards these past few years!
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Full Retail business suit |
This image is "I need to look like James Bond now, because I've bought the sports car" suit. Jason paid Full Retail, after telling me that he'd watch his pennies after buying the new car. How naive I was!
I look at this particular suit and think about the fly screens for all the bedrooms.
And then there was yesterday. Jason came home from work holding a suit bag. I thought it was his dry cleaning. No, my mistake. He just bought
another suit!
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This may or may not be the suit that Jason bought. I couldn't bear to look at it properly, I was so annoyed! |
Let's get this straight, I'm not against Jason buying clothes for work. (Ironic that he loves clothes so much when he can't stand wearing clothes at home). It's just that this particular purchase is poorly timed. Buying a good work suit is very expensive. This spur-of-the-moment purchase is the equivalent to Carlo the Electrician's electrical bill for rewiring the entire house.
A few major bills have made things look a bit lean around here. Stupidly, I have been trying to watch my spending, delaying major purchases in order to save.
I know that the way I feel is my own silly fault because I am being pointlessly frugal. Please make me feel better. Am I the only one who plays the financial martyr?
P.S
Jason's new suit was on sale, thankfully. And this blog is a great form of therapy too.